Disappointed by your small flat? This mom's story will change your mind and heart

In a candid and heartfelt social media post that struck a chord with urban parents living in compact homes, a woman of Indian descent residing in the heart of London explained why she enjoys the experience of raising her 7-month-old child in a modest-sized apartment with her husband.

Cradling her baby, Natasha revealed that she and her spouse had seriously contemplated relocating to a more spacious home when they began planning their family. However, after much thought, they made the deliberate choice to remain in their cozy London apartment — a decision she says comes with unexpected advantages.

Taking to Instagram, Natasha shared a video titled “Why I’ve Grown to Love Life in a Small Apartment with a Baby,” lightheartedly suggesting she might be convincing herself to feel that way.

She explained that limited square footage naturally encourages mindfulness about what items you allow into your home. With restricted storage and space, purchases become more thoughtful and purposeful. This results in lower spending on both goods and upkeep, allowing families to redirect their funds towards other goals — like experiences, savings, or even a vacation.

Natasha also pointed out that a smaller home compels you to maintain order and cleanliness, simply because clutter has nowhere to hide. “You're motivated to tidy up regularly — there's no room to let things pile up,” she remarked.

She believes that compact living arrangements can actually benefit new parents. With a baby in the house, being in close quarters means you can instantly respond when your child cries, no matter which room you're in. Infants don’t require vast play areas, she noted, so staying in or heading to a nearby park — a perk of city living — is often more than enough. Moreover, she shared that living in a small flat fosters family bonding. “You’re always around each other — there’s a sense of constant togetherness,” Natasha explained. And when personal space is needed, stepping out to the gym or a café can offer a healthier escape than isolating in a separate room.

She concluded by acknowledging that larger homes certainly come with their own set of joys, but emphasized that her message was aimed at others in a similar stage of life. “This is exactly the kind of reassurance I needed back when we were making our choice,” she added.

The video has generated a wave of empathy and connection among other parents. One mom shared, “I’ve really come to value living on a single floor with my newborn — honestly, I’d tell others to hold off on moving until their baby turns one.” Another commented, “This isn’t denial — it’s just practical. Your video reached me at the perfect time.”